Warmth of the fireplace tonight
Reminds me of the warmth of your arms
Coolness river happiness
Looked like your smile
Peacefulness of my soul ..
Where .. that compassion?
Who You like the pseudo-dream
Just could feel his eternal sorrow
In the heart saved a lot of prayer ..
You said we can certainly
Can the most loved
Grow old together
United till death
You said you multiply prayers and hopes
Definitely not our dream come true
But what happens now ..?
Let Heaven decide ..
One wishes ..
Our love should not be changed
Our hearts remain united
Creating happy together
Not as easy as we thought ..
How to .. I have to stop the tears?
Our dreams only in dreams ..
Let Heaven decide
About the end of our love story ..
Selasa, 17 Mei 2011
CINTA SEJATI
TRUE LOVE
Since its presence until now
My room smelled fragrant
Cradle miss dancing flowers
That you left hearts
The more days blossomed
Without this smile withered
Tersirami holy love
From you sweetheart
Do not leave me alone
Kuhanya want to have
Yourself wholly true love
Being a fixed price no longer tertawar
If there are bullies liver
Heart is firmly confront
Thou shalt not hesitate anymore
Heart is yours immortal
Since its presence until now
My room smelled fragrant
Cradle miss dancing flowers
That you left hearts
The more days blossomed
Without this smile withered
Tersirami holy love
From you sweetheart
Do not leave me alone
Kuhanya want to have
Yourself wholly true love
Being a fixed price no longer tertawar
If there are bullies liver
Heart is firmly confront
Thou shalt not hesitate anymore
Heart is yours immortal
GURU
TEACHERS ...
Kala vacuum will wrap science
While poverty fell to flow in
Nan roar echoes resound stupidity
You're the lamp of science rescuer nation
Without the Alfa science
'll Never know A
One would never know
And would never know it
Hadirmu give the light of science in our lives
Illuminate every step our foothold
Alleviate us from the abyss of ignorance
And save us from poverty trap
TEACHERS ...
What a noble dedication to our
Strong conviction of a major change
Encourage you to continue and move on
'tuk trying to brush brush within our science
For the sake of abstract graffiti graffiti colors lie
Giving a new painting in the world of education
Reviews after reviews Wherever the word uttered
Blue red coloring in scientific reference
Kala vacuum will wrap science
While poverty fell to flow in
Nan roar echoes resound stupidity
You're the lamp of science rescuer nation
Without the Alfa science
'll Never know A
One would never know
And would never know it
Hadirmu give the light of science in our lives
Illuminate every step our foothold
Alleviate us from the abyss of ignorance
And save us from poverty trap
TEACHERS ...
What a noble dedication to our
Strong conviction of a major change
Encourage you to continue and move on
'tuk trying to brush brush within our science
For the sake of abstract graffiti graffiti colors lie
Giving a new painting in the world of education
Reviews after reviews Wherever the word uttered
Blue red coloring in scientific reference
CINTA YANG AGUNG
LOVE SUPREME
Is when you shed tears
and still cares for ..
It is when he's not and you still mempedulikanmu
faithfully waiting for him ..
Is when he begins to love another person
and you still can smile while saying 'I
sympathetic joy for you ..
If love does not work
... Free yourself ...
Let your heart spread its wings again
and fly into the wild again ..
Remember ... that you may find love and
lost ..
But .. when love is dead ..
You do not need to die with him
NOT the strongest person they are always
win .. BUT they are still tough when
they fall ..
Is when you shed tears
and still cares for ..
It is when he's not and you still mempedulikanmu
faithfully waiting for him ..
Is when he begins to love another person
and you still can smile while saying 'I
sympathetic joy for you ..
If love does not work
... Free yourself ...
Let your heart spread its wings again
and fly into the wild again ..
Remember ... that you may find love and
lost ..
But .. when love is dead ..
You do not need to die with him
NOT the strongest person they are always
win .. BUT they are still tough when
they fall ..
sejarah PERSIB dan PSSI
A Look at History Persib and PSSI
Indonesian soccer journey tracing the trail, it must be admitted Persib Bandung is an important part because it became one of the founding pioneers of PSSI on April 19, 1930. BIVB (Bandoeng Indische Voetbal Bond) as an embryo-born Maung Bandung joined together to declare the establishment of PSSI Persija PSIM Yogyakarta and Jakarta.
Based on the number of Bandung and the literature of National football history, such as books and Travel Paths Long History Persib Persib Risnandar work. Envoy BIVB, Syamsoedin PSSI was present in the declaration in Yogyakarta.
Lapse of three years after initiating the establishment of PSSI, BIVB later united with other football clubs in Bandung at that time, the National Voetball Bond (NVB) declared the establishment of Persib on March 14, 1933. Apart from the two clubs, a number of smaller clubs who participated melt and join them TERRACE, Singgalang, Soenda, Diana, the Sun, OVU, RAN, HBOM, Jop, MALTA and Merapi.
PSSI establishment at the time, also marked the struggle of indigenous peoples, including in the field of sports. At that time, the Dutch government is actually already has a football organization named Nederland Indische Voetbal Unie (NIVU), which overshadowed a number of clubs in Jakarta and Bandung.
"In addition to striving to maintain its existence, Persib is also one of the national football association that helped give birth and struggle for existence PSSI," wrote Risnandar in his book titled 'History of Long Persib'.
Although time to get opposition from the Dutch Government, Persib effort and a number of union football (PS) at the time, although the results bear fruit in the early days of its establishment.
In 1937, Persib initiative to strengthen and revitalize the United wheel competition. Ability to generate confidence in a number of PS like PSIS Semarang, PSIM Yogyakarta, Surabaya and Persebaya Persija Jakarta.
Not only that, PSSI finally officially in the Congress of the United Sports of the Republic of Indonesia in Semarang in 1950 was officially recognized as the parent organization to be recognized FIFA football Indonesia, two years later, in 1952.
Listening relationship as very close history between the founding of Persib with PSSI. So it can be said if Maung Bandung to retreat, to say the PSSI will lose its mother.
Moreover, the fact is, Persib indeed be one of the club with a fairly high level of popularity. A number of facts show that, among the number of followers in Bandung Persib facebook group accounts are able to penetrate the 1 million more accounts.
Other indicators, Maung Bandung number one this season so enticing in the affairs of the sponsor. Apparel products from Spain would prefer to dress Maung Bandung troops in pursuit of their first as an apparel sponsor football clubs in Indonesia.
Others, can be seen from a series of sponsor partners Maung Bandung well as the main sponsor and official sponsors of the total reaches eight-sponsorship with the amount of the estimated contract agreement could cover about 50% to 60% of the club.
Indonesian soccer journey tracing the trail, it must be admitted Persib Bandung is an important part because it became one of the founding pioneers of PSSI on April 19, 1930. BIVB (Bandoeng Indische Voetbal Bond) as an embryo-born Maung Bandung joined together to declare the establishment of PSSI Persija PSIM Yogyakarta and Jakarta.
Based on the number of Bandung and the literature of National football history, such as books and Travel Paths Long History Persib Persib Risnandar work. Envoy BIVB, Syamsoedin PSSI was present in the declaration in Yogyakarta.
Lapse of three years after initiating the establishment of PSSI, BIVB later united with other football clubs in Bandung at that time, the National Voetball Bond (NVB) declared the establishment of Persib on March 14, 1933. Apart from the two clubs, a number of smaller clubs who participated melt and join them TERRACE, Singgalang, Soenda, Diana, the Sun, OVU, RAN, HBOM, Jop, MALTA and Merapi.
PSSI establishment at the time, also marked the struggle of indigenous peoples, including in the field of sports. At that time, the Dutch government is actually already has a football organization named Nederland Indische Voetbal Unie (NIVU), which overshadowed a number of clubs in Jakarta and Bandung.
"In addition to striving to maintain its existence, Persib is also one of the national football association that helped give birth and struggle for existence PSSI," wrote Risnandar in his book titled 'History of Long Persib'.
Although time to get opposition from the Dutch Government, Persib effort and a number of union football (PS) at the time, although the results bear fruit in the early days of its establishment.
In 1937, Persib initiative to strengthen and revitalize the United wheel competition. Ability to generate confidence in a number of PS like PSIS Semarang, PSIM Yogyakarta, Surabaya and Persebaya Persija Jakarta.
Not only that, PSSI finally officially in the Congress of the United Sports of the Republic of Indonesia in Semarang in 1950 was officially recognized as the parent organization to be recognized FIFA football Indonesia, two years later, in 1952.
Listening relationship as very close history between the founding of Persib with PSSI. So it can be said if Maung Bandung to retreat, to say the PSSI will lose its mother.
Moreover, the fact is, Persib indeed be one of the club with a fairly high level of popularity. A number of facts show that, among the number of followers in Bandung Persib facebook group accounts are able to penetrate the 1 million more accounts.
Other indicators, Maung Bandung number one this season so enticing in the affairs of the sponsor. Apparel products from Spain would prefer to dress Maung Bandung troops in pursuit of their first as an apparel sponsor football clubs in Indonesia.
Others, can be seen from a series of sponsor partners Maung Bandung well as the main sponsor and official sponsors of the total reaches eight-sponsorship with the amount of the estimated contract agreement could cover about 50% to 60% of the club.
Selasa, 10 Mei 2011
tugas softskil II
tugas softskil II
CAUSATIVE VERB “HAVE”
Causative “have” is followed by the simple form of a verb, not an infinitive. (causative “have” diikuti oleh verb 1 (tanpa tambahan s/-es), bukan diikuti oleh infinitif (to+verb1)).
Examples:
-I had John repair my bike. (CORRECT)
-I had John to repair my bike. (INCORRECT,because it is followed by an infinitive)
Kalimat ke 2 salah karena diikuti oleh infinitif (to+verb1)
► “Have” gives the idea that “X” request “Y” to do something. ( “Have” menunjukkan bahwa “X” meminta “Y” untuk melakukan sesuatu.)
The formula is: “X” has/have/had “Y” do something (simple form) (rumusnya adalah “X” has/have/had “Y” melakukakn sesuatu (verb dalam bentuk sederhana(verb1 tanpa tambahan s/-es)).
Examples: - Mary has John carry her bag.
Means(artinya): John carried the bag because Mary ask him to. ( John membawa tas karena Mary menyuruhnya).
-I have Jane put my books
Means: Jane put my books because I ask her to.
- Tom had Jane clean the room yesterday
Using “had” because the adverb of time is yesterday. But still the verb is in simple form.
HAVE SOME THING DONE
(HAVE +Past Participle (Verb3)
The past participle(verb 3) is used after “have’ to give a passive meaning.
Examples: - I had my watch repaired (by someone) yesterday.
Means: I caused my watch to be repaired by someone. (saya menyuruh orang lain untuk memperbaiki jam tangan saya kemarin).
-I have my hair cut means: I asked someone to cut my hair. (saya menyuruh seseorang untuk mencukur rambut saya)
- I am having my car washed at the moment means: I am asking someone to wash my car at the moment. (pada saat ini saya SEDANG menyuruh seseorang mencuci mobil saya.)
You have to know the different between Have something done and present Perfect/ past perfect form.
HAVE SOMETHING DONE: I have my hair cut means: I ask someone to cut my hair.
PRESENT PERFECT(S+HAVE/HAS+V3): I have cut my hair means: you cut your own hair.
PATTERNS for HAVE SOMETHING DONE:
• S + HAVE/HAS + OBJECT + VERB 3
• S + HAD + OBJECT +VERB3 +PAST TIME
• S + TOBE (IS/AM/ARE) + HAVING +OBJECT + VERB3 + NOW/RIGHT NOW/ AT THE MOMENT.
CONCLUSION:
- Use active sentence for causative “have” (using simple form of a verb) and passive sentence for have something done (using verb 3).
- For causative “have” after subject you have to use the right form of “have” whether it is “have or has or had” then the object is people (someone), after that,you have to use a simple form of a verb (verb 1 without s/-es) in any kind of adverb of time (present time or past time still use simple form of a verb), you just choose the right form of “have” “have or has” for present time, “had “ for past time.
- For have something done just follow the pattern.
EXERCISES:
Fill in the blanks with the right form of causative have, and choose the right form of verb given in the brakets. (isilah dengan bentuk causative have yang benar, dan pilih salah satu bentuk verb yang benar yang diberikan di dalam kurung)
1.We had our treasury Bought our new books yesterday. (buy / buys / bought / to buy)
2.She has her mom cooked dinner for her. (cook / cooks / cooked / to cook )
3.He had his brother done his homework last night (do / does / did / done)
4.Tom is having Bill written the report at the moment. (write / writes / writing / written)
5.Mike has Jenni saved his data. (save / saving / saves / saved)
6.Bob has his packages delivered by the postman. ( deliver / delivers / delivered / delivery)
7.Eddy had_his data changed by his secretary last week. (change / changes / changed / changing)
8.Marie is having her house painted by the workmen at the moment. ( paint / painting / painted / paints)
9.Jonny has his car parked by the parking man. (park / parks / parking / parked)
10They are having their maid cleaned their room right now. (clean / cleaned / cleans / cleaning)
CAUSATIVE VERB “HAVE”
Causative “have” is followed by the simple form of a verb, not an infinitive. (causative “have” diikuti oleh verb 1 (tanpa tambahan s/-es), bukan diikuti oleh infinitif (to+verb1)).
Examples:
-I had John repair my bike. (CORRECT)
-I had John to repair my bike. (INCORRECT,because it is followed by an infinitive)
Kalimat ke 2 salah karena diikuti oleh infinitif (to+verb1)
► “Have” gives the idea that “X” request “Y” to do something. ( “Have” menunjukkan bahwa “X” meminta “Y” untuk melakukan sesuatu.)
The formula is: “X” has/have/had “Y” do something (simple form) (rumusnya adalah “X” has/have/had “Y” melakukakn sesuatu (verb dalam bentuk sederhana(verb1 tanpa tambahan s/-es)).
Examples: - Mary has John carry her bag.
Means(artinya): John carried the bag because Mary ask him to. ( John membawa tas karena Mary menyuruhnya).
-I have Jane put my books
Means: Jane put my books because I ask her to.
- Tom had Jane clean the room yesterday
Using “had” because the adverb of time is yesterday. But still the verb is in simple form.
HAVE SOME THING DONE
(HAVE +Past Participle (Verb3)
The past participle(verb 3) is used after “have’ to give a passive meaning.
Examples: - I had my watch repaired (by someone) yesterday.
Means: I caused my watch to be repaired by someone. (saya menyuruh orang lain untuk memperbaiki jam tangan saya kemarin).
-I have my hair cut means: I asked someone to cut my hair. (saya menyuruh seseorang untuk mencukur rambut saya)
- I am having my car washed at the moment means: I am asking someone to wash my car at the moment. (pada saat ini saya SEDANG menyuruh seseorang mencuci mobil saya.)
You have to know the different between Have something done and present Perfect/ past perfect form.
HAVE SOMETHING DONE: I have my hair cut means: I ask someone to cut my hair.
PRESENT PERFECT(S+HAVE/HAS+V3): I have cut my hair means: you cut your own hair.
PATTERNS for HAVE SOMETHING DONE:
• S + HAVE/HAS + OBJECT + VERB 3
• S + HAD + OBJECT +VERB3 +PAST TIME
• S + TOBE (IS/AM/ARE) + HAVING +OBJECT + VERB3 + NOW/RIGHT NOW/ AT THE MOMENT.
CONCLUSION:
- Use active sentence for causative “have” (using simple form of a verb) and passive sentence for have something done (using verb 3).
- For causative “have” after subject you have to use the right form of “have” whether it is “have or has or had” then the object is people (someone), after that,you have to use a simple form of a verb (verb 1 without s/-es) in any kind of adverb of time (present time or past time still use simple form of a verb), you just choose the right form of “have” “have or has” for present time, “had “ for past time.
- For have something done just follow the pattern.
EXERCISES:
Fill in the blanks with the right form of causative have, and choose the right form of verb given in the brakets. (isilah dengan bentuk causative have yang benar, dan pilih salah satu bentuk verb yang benar yang diberikan di dalam kurung)
1.We had our treasury Bought our new books yesterday. (buy / buys / bought / to buy)
2.She has her mom cooked dinner for her. (cook / cooks / cooked / to cook )
3.He had his brother done his homework last night (do / does / did / done)
4.Tom is having Bill written the report at the moment. (write / writes / writing / written)
5.Mike has Jenni saved his data. (save / saving / saves / saved)
6.Bob has his packages delivered by the postman. ( deliver / delivers / delivered / delivery)
7.Eddy had_his data changed by his secretary last week. (change / changes / changed / changing)
8.Marie is having her house painted by the workmen at the moment. ( paint / painting / painted / paints)
9.Jonny has his car parked by the parking man. (park / parks / parking / parked)
10They are having their maid cleaned their room right now. (clean / cleaned / cleans / cleaning)
Rabu, 04 Mei 2011
SANGKURIANG
Sangkuriang
Long time ago in West Java, lived a beautiful girl named Dayang Sumbi. She was also smart and clever. Her beauty and intelligence made a prince from the heavenly kingdom of Kahyangan desire her as his wife. The prince asked permission from his father to marry Dayang Sumbi.
People from Kahyangan could never live side by side with humans, but his father approved on one condition, when they had a child, the prince would transform into a dog. The prince accepted the condition.
They get married and lived happily in the woods until Dayang Sumbi gave birth to a baby boy. The prince then changed into a dog named Tumang. Their son is named Sangkuriang. He was very smart and handsome like his father.
Everyday, he hunted animals and looked for fruits to eat. One day, when he was hunting, Sangkuriang accidentally killed Tumang. His arrow missed the deer he was targeting and hit Tumang instead. He went home and tells her mother about the dog. “What?” Dayang Sumbi was appalled. Driven by sadness and anger, she grabbed a weaving tool and hit Sangkuriang’s head with it. Dayang Sumbi was so sad; she didn’t pay any attention to Sangkuriang and started to cry.
Sangkuriang feel sad and also confused. How can his mother love a dog more than him? Sangkuriang then decided to go away from their home and went on a journey. In the morning, Dayang Sumbi finally stopped crying. She started to feel better, so she went to find Sangkuriang. But her son was no where to be found. She looked everywhere but still couldn’t find him. Finally, she went home with nothing. She was exhausted. She fell asleep, and in her dream, she meets her husband. “Dayang Sumbi, don’t be sad. Go look for my body in the woods and get the heart. Soak it with water, and use the water to bathe, and you will look young forever,” said the prince in her dream. After bathing with the water used to soak the dog’s heart, Dayang Sumbi looked more beautiful and even younger.
And time passed by. Sangkuriang on his journey stopped at a village and met and fell in love with a beautiful girl.He didn’t realize that the village was his homeland and the beautiful girl was his own mother, Dayang Sumbi. Their love grew naturally and he asked the girl to marry him. One day, Sangkuriang was going on a hunt. He asked Dayang Sumbi to fix the turban on his head. Dayang Sumbi was startled when she saw a scar on his head at the same place where she, years ago, hit Sangkuriang on the head.
After the young man left, Dayang Sumbi prayed for guidance. After praying, she became convinced that the young man was indeed her missing son. She realized that she had to do something to prevent Sangkuriang from marrying her. But she did not wish to disappoint him by cancelling the wedding. So, although she agreed to marry Sangkuriang, she would do so only on the condition that he provides her with a lake and built a beautiful boat, all in one night.
Sangkuriang accepted this condition without a doubt. He had spent his youth studying magical arts. After the sun went down, Sangkuriang went to the hill. Then he called a group of genie to build a dam around Citarum River. Then, he commands the genies to cut down trees and build a boat. A few moments before dawn, Sangkuriang and his genie servants almost finished the boat.
Dayang Sumbi, who had been spying on him, realised that Sangkuriang would fulfill the condition she had set. Dayang Sumbi immediately woke all the women in the village and asked them to wave a long red scarf. All the women in the village were waving red scarf, making it look as if dawn was breaking. Deceived by false dawn, the cock crowed and farmers rose for the new day.
Sangkuriang’s genie servants immediately dropped their work and ran for cover from the sun, which they feared. Sangkuriang grew furious. With all his anger, he kicked the unfinished boat. The boat flew and landed on a valley. The boat then became a mountain, called Mount Tangkuban Perahu (Tangkuban means upturned or upside down, and Perahu means boat). With his power, he destroyed the dam. The water drained from the lake becoming a wide plain and nowadays became a city called Bandung (from the word Bendung, which means Dam).
Long time ago in West Java, lived a beautiful girl named Dayang Sumbi. She was also smart and clever. Her beauty and intelligence made a prince from the heavenly kingdom of Kahyangan desire her as his wife. The prince asked permission from his father to marry Dayang Sumbi.
People from Kahyangan could never live side by side with humans, but his father approved on one condition, when they had a child, the prince would transform into a dog. The prince accepted the condition.
They get married and lived happily in the woods until Dayang Sumbi gave birth to a baby boy. The prince then changed into a dog named Tumang. Their son is named Sangkuriang. He was very smart and handsome like his father.
Everyday, he hunted animals and looked for fruits to eat. One day, when he was hunting, Sangkuriang accidentally killed Tumang. His arrow missed the deer he was targeting and hit Tumang instead. He went home and tells her mother about the dog. “What?” Dayang Sumbi was appalled. Driven by sadness and anger, she grabbed a weaving tool and hit Sangkuriang’s head with it. Dayang Sumbi was so sad; she didn’t pay any attention to Sangkuriang and started to cry.
Sangkuriang feel sad and also confused. How can his mother love a dog more than him? Sangkuriang then decided to go away from their home and went on a journey. In the morning, Dayang Sumbi finally stopped crying. She started to feel better, so she went to find Sangkuriang. But her son was no where to be found. She looked everywhere but still couldn’t find him. Finally, she went home with nothing. She was exhausted. She fell asleep, and in her dream, she meets her husband. “Dayang Sumbi, don’t be sad. Go look for my body in the woods and get the heart. Soak it with water, and use the water to bathe, and you will look young forever,” said the prince in her dream. After bathing with the water used to soak the dog’s heart, Dayang Sumbi looked more beautiful and even younger.
And time passed by. Sangkuriang on his journey stopped at a village and met and fell in love with a beautiful girl.He didn’t realize that the village was his homeland and the beautiful girl was his own mother, Dayang Sumbi. Their love grew naturally and he asked the girl to marry him. One day, Sangkuriang was going on a hunt. He asked Dayang Sumbi to fix the turban on his head. Dayang Sumbi was startled when she saw a scar on his head at the same place where she, years ago, hit Sangkuriang on the head.
After the young man left, Dayang Sumbi prayed for guidance. After praying, she became convinced that the young man was indeed her missing son. She realized that she had to do something to prevent Sangkuriang from marrying her. But she did not wish to disappoint him by cancelling the wedding. So, although she agreed to marry Sangkuriang, she would do so only on the condition that he provides her with a lake and built a beautiful boat, all in one night.
Sangkuriang accepted this condition without a doubt. He had spent his youth studying magical arts. After the sun went down, Sangkuriang went to the hill. Then he called a group of genie to build a dam around Citarum River. Then, he commands the genies to cut down trees and build a boat. A few moments before dawn, Sangkuriang and his genie servants almost finished the boat.
Dayang Sumbi, who had been spying on him, realised that Sangkuriang would fulfill the condition she had set. Dayang Sumbi immediately woke all the women in the village and asked them to wave a long red scarf. All the women in the village were waving red scarf, making it look as if dawn was breaking. Deceived by false dawn, the cock crowed and farmers rose for the new day.
Sangkuriang’s genie servants immediately dropped their work and ran for cover from the sun, which they feared. Sangkuriang grew furious. With all his anger, he kicked the unfinished boat. The boat flew and landed on a valley. The boat then became a mountain, called Mount Tangkuban Perahu (Tangkuban means upturned or upside down, and Perahu means boat). With his power, he destroyed the dam. The water drained from the lake becoming a wide plain and nowadays became a city called Bandung (from the word Bendung, which means Dam).
MALIN KUNDANG
Once upon a time, on the north coast of Sumatra lived a poor woman and his son. The boy was called Malin Kundang. They didn’t earn much as fishing was their only source of income. Malin Kundang grew up as a skillful young boy. He always helps his mother to earn some money. However, as they were only fisherman’s helper, they still lived in poverty. “Mother, what if I sail overseas?” asked Malin Kundang one day to his mother. Her mother didn’t agree but Malin Kundang had made up his mind. “Mother, if I stay here, I’ll always be a poor man. I want to be a successful person,” urged Malin kundang. His mother wiped her tears, “If you really want to go, I can’t stop you. I could only pray to God for you to gain success in life,” said his mother wisely. “But, promise me, you’ll come home.”
In the next morning, Malin Kundang was ready to go. Three days ago, he met one of the successful ship’s crew. Malin was offered to join him. “Take a good care of yourself, son,” said Malin Kundang’s mother as she gave him some food supplies. “Yes, Mother,” Malin Kundang said. “You too have to take a good care of yourself. I’ll keep in touch with you,” he continued before kissing his mother’s hand. Before Malin stepped onto the ship, Malin’s mother hugged him tight as if she didn’t want to let him go.
It had been three months since Malin Kundang left his mother. As his mother had predicted before, he hadn’t contacted her yet. Every morning, she stood on the pier. She wished to see the ship that brought Malin kundang home. Every day and night, she prayed to the God for her son’s safety. There was so much prayer that had been said due to her deep love for Malin Kundang. Even though it’s been a year she had not heard any news from Malin Kundang, she kept waiting and praying for him.
After several years waiting without any news, Malin Kundang’s mother was suddenly surprised by the arrival of a big ship in the pier where she usually stood to wait for her son. When the ship finally pulled over, Malin Kundang’s mother saw a man who looked wealthy stepping down a ladder along with a beautiful woman. She could not be wrong. Her blurry eyes still easily recognized him. The man was Malin Kundang, her son.
Malin Kundang’s mother quickly went to see her beloved son. “Malin, you’re back, son!” said Malin Kundang’s mother and without hesitation, she came running to hug Malin Kundang, “I miss you so much.” But, Malin Kundang didn’t show any respond. He was ashamed to admit his own mother in front of his beautiful wife. “You’re not my Mother. I don’t know you. My mother would never wear such ragged and ugly clothes,” said Malin Kundang as he release his mother embrace.
Malin Kundang’s mother take a step back, “Malin…You don’t recognize me? I’m your mother!” she said sadly. Malin Kundang’s face was as cold as ice. “Guard, take this old women out of here,” Malin Kundang ordered his bodyguard. “Give her some money so she won’t disturb me again!” Malin Kundang’s mother cried as she was dragged by the bodyguard, ”Malin… my son. Why do you treat your own mother like this?”
Malin Kundang ignored his mother and ordered the ship crews to set sail. Malin Kundang’s mother sat alone in the pier. Her heart was so hurt, she cried and cried. “Dear God, if he isn’t my son, please let him have a save journey. But if he is, I cursed him to become a stone,” she prayed to the God.
In the quiet sea, suddenly the wind blew so hard and a thunderstorm came. Malin Kundang’s huge ship was wrecked. He was thrown by the wave out of his ship, and fell on a small island. Suddenly, his whole body turned into stone. He was punished for not admitting his own mother.
In the next morning, Malin Kundang was ready to go. Three days ago, he met one of the successful ship’s crew. Malin was offered to join him. “Take a good care of yourself, son,” said Malin Kundang’s mother as she gave him some food supplies. “Yes, Mother,” Malin Kundang said. “You too have to take a good care of yourself. I’ll keep in touch with you,” he continued before kissing his mother’s hand. Before Malin stepped onto the ship, Malin’s mother hugged him tight as if she didn’t want to let him go.
It had been three months since Malin Kundang left his mother. As his mother had predicted before, he hadn’t contacted her yet. Every morning, she stood on the pier. She wished to see the ship that brought Malin kundang home. Every day and night, she prayed to the God for her son’s safety. There was so much prayer that had been said due to her deep love for Malin Kundang. Even though it’s been a year she had not heard any news from Malin Kundang, she kept waiting and praying for him.
After several years waiting without any news, Malin Kundang’s mother was suddenly surprised by the arrival of a big ship in the pier where she usually stood to wait for her son. When the ship finally pulled over, Malin Kundang’s mother saw a man who looked wealthy stepping down a ladder along with a beautiful woman. She could not be wrong. Her blurry eyes still easily recognized him. The man was Malin Kundang, her son.
Malin Kundang’s mother quickly went to see her beloved son. “Malin, you’re back, son!” said Malin Kundang’s mother and without hesitation, she came running to hug Malin Kundang, “I miss you so much.” But, Malin Kundang didn’t show any respond. He was ashamed to admit his own mother in front of his beautiful wife. “You’re not my Mother. I don’t know you. My mother would never wear such ragged and ugly clothes,” said Malin Kundang as he release his mother embrace.
Malin Kundang’s mother take a step back, “Malin…You don’t recognize me? I’m your mother!” she said sadly. Malin Kundang’s face was as cold as ice. “Guard, take this old women out of here,” Malin Kundang ordered his bodyguard. “Give her some money so she won’t disturb me again!” Malin Kundang’s mother cried as she was dragged by the bodyguard, ”Malin… my son. Why do you treat your own mother like this?”
Malin Kundang ignored his mother and ordered the ship crews to set sail. Malin Kundang’s mother sat alone in the pier. Her heart was so hurt, she cried and cried. “Dear God, if he isn’t my son, please let him have a save journey. But if he is, I cursed him to become a stone,” she prayed to the God.
In the quiet sea, suddenly the wind blew so hard and a thunderstorm came. Malin Kundang’s huge ship was wrecked. He was thrown by the wave out of his ship, and fell on a small island. Suddenly, his whole body turned into stone. He was punished for not admitting his own mother.
poems for mothers
Mother ...
is the woman who gave birth to me taking care of
raising
educate me
until I had grown
Mother ...
is a woman who is always alert when I was in the cradle
when my legs not strong enough to stand
when my stomach feels hungry and thirsty
when kuterbangun in the morning, noon and night
Mother ...
is a caring woman
when I was sick
when I fell
when I cry
when I'm lonely
Mother ...
has been sleeping at a time when I looked at your face
there is light filled with keridhoan
rays are full of patience
there is light filled with love and affection
there is light because I'm exhausted
I always trouble
I always seize your attention
I have spent the water Susumu
I always trouble you until the tears
Mother ...
you cry because I
are you sad because I
You suffer because of me
you skinny because I
You sacrificed everything for me
Mother ...
credit is not rewarded
credit is not bought
credit is endless
credit is matchless
credit is beautifully painted in heaven
Mother ...
can only pray that I dedicate to you
because of your righteousness
gone unreturned
Only tears as witness
of my love for you
Mother ..., I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
also the father ...!!!
is the woman who gave birth to me taking care of
raising
educate me
until I had grown
Mother ...
is a woman who is always alert when I was in the cradle
when my legs not strong enough to stand
when my stomach feels hungry and thirsty
when kuterbangun in the morning, noon and night
Mother ...
is a caring woman
when I was sick
when I fell
when I cry
when I'm lonely
Mother ...
has been sleeping at a time when I looked at your face
there is light filled with keridhoan
rays are full of patience
there is light filled with love and affection
there is light because I'm exhausted
I always trouble
I always seize your attention
I have spent the water Susumu
I always trouble you until the tears
Mother ...
you cry because I
are you sad because I
You suffer because of me
you skinny because I
You sacrificed everything for me
Mother ...
credit is not rewarded
credit is not bought
credit is endless
credit is matchless
credit is beautifully painted in heaven
Mother ...
can only pray that I dedicate to you
because of your righteousness
gone unreturned
Only tears as witness
of my love for you
Mother ..., I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
also the father ...!!!
FRIENDSHIP
And if you say, said to me about the truth of friendship? .. Companion is a need for the soul, which must be fulfilled.
He was the heart fields, which you sprinkle with love and you harvest with gratitude.
And he's also the shade and pendianganmu.
Because you walked during lapa heart and soul need kedamaian.Bila look when he spoke, expressing his thoughts, you're not afraid to whisper the word "not" in your heart alone, Nor do you hide the word "yes. "
And when he was silent, not your heart do not you stop trying to summarize the language of his heart, because without expression said, in a summary of the friendship, all thoughts, desires and wishes were born together with joy intact, was not terkirakan.
At the time parting with friends, do not grieve; Because most kaukasihi in itself, may be more brilliant in its absence, like a mountain for a climber, appears to be more glorious than the soil canyon terrain.
And no other purpose than to enrich the spirit of mutual friendship except psychiatric. Because of the love that still leaves disinterested, outside the reach of the mystery, is not love, but a mesh of scattered: only captures the never expected.
And offer the most beautiful for your friend.
If he must know surutmu season, let him know too pasangmu season.
Hello what's best friend until you're always looking, for just together in killing time?
Look for it to turn on the time together!
Because he was the one who could fill the shortcomings, not to fill emptiness.
And in the sweetness of friendship let there laughter shared happiness.
Because of the small dots in the morning dew, the dawn of the human heart find teak and fresh passion of life.
By : kahil Gibran
He was the heart fields, which you sprinkle with love and you harvest with gratitude.
And he's also the shade and pendianganmu.
Because you walked during lapa heart and soul need kedamaian.Bila look when he spoke, expressing his thoughts, you're not afraid to whisper the word "not" in your heart alone, Nor do you hide the word "yes. "
And when he was silent, not your heart do not you stop trying to summarize the language of his heart, because without expression said, in a summary of the friendship, all thoughts, desires and wishes were born together with joy intact, was not terkirakan.
At the time parting with friends, do not grieve; Because most kaukasihi in itself, may be more brilliant in its absence, like a mountain for a climber, appears to be more glorious than the soil canyon terrain.
And no other purpose than to enrich the spirit of mutual friendship except psychiatric. Because of the love that still leaves disinterested, outside the reach of the mystery, is not love, but a mesh of scattered: only captures the never expected.
And offer the most beautiful for your friend.
If he must know surutmu season, let him know too pasangmu season.
Hello what's best friend until you're always looking, for just together in killing time?
Look for it to turn on the time together!
Because he was the one who could fill the shortcomings, not to fill emptiness.
And in the sweetness of friendship let there laughter shared happiness.
Because of the small dots in the morning dew, the dawn of the human heart find teak and fresh passion of life.
By : kahil Gibran
CINDERELLA
Cinderella
ONCE there was a gentleman who married, for his second wife, the proudest and most haughty woman that was ever seen. She had, by a former husband, two daughters of her own humor, who were, indeed, exactly like her in all things. He had likewise, by another wife, a young daughter, but of unparalleled goodness and sweetness of temper, which she took from her mother, who was the best creature in the world.
No sooner were the ceremonies of the wedding over but the mother-in-law began to show herself in her true colors. She could not bear the good qualities of this pretty girl, and the less because they made her own daughters appear the more odious. She employed her in the meanest work of the house: she scoured the dishes, tables, etc., and scrubbed madam’s chamber, and those of misses, her daughters; she lay up in a sorry garret, upon a wretched straw bed, while her sisters lay in fine rooms, with floors all inlaid, upon beds of the very newest fashion, and where they had looking-glasses so large that they might see themselves at their full length from head to foot.
The poor girl bore all patiently, and dared not tell her father, who would have rattled her off; for his wife governed him entirely. When she had done her work, she used to go into the chimney-corner, and sit down among cinders and ashes, which made her commonly be called Cinderwench; but the youngest, who was not so rude and uncivil as the eldest, called her Cinderella. However, Cinderella, notwithstanding her mean apparel, was a hundred times handsomer than her sisters, though they were always dressed very richly.
It happened that the King’s son gave a ball, and invited all persons of fashion to it. Our young misses were also invited, for they cut a very grand figure among the quality. They were mightily delighted at this invitation, and wonderfully busy in choosing out such gowns, petticoats, and head-clothes as might become them. This was a new trouble to Cinderella; for it was she who ironed her sisters’ linen, and plaited their ruffles; they talked all day long of nothing but how they should be dressed.
“For my part,” said the eldest, “I will wear my red velvet suit with French trimming.”
“And I,” said the youngest, “shall have my usual petticoat; but then, to make amends for that, I will put on my gold-flowered manteau, and my diamond stomacher, which is far from being the most ordinary one in the world.”
They sent for the best tire-woman they could get to make up their head-dresses and adjust their double pinners, and they had their red brushes and patches from Mademoiselle de la Poche.
Cinderella was likewise called up to them to be consulted in all these matters, for she had excellent notions, and advised them always for the best, nay, and offered her services to dress their heads, which they were very willing she should do. As she was doing this, they said to her:
“Cinderella, would you not be glad to go to the ball?”
“Alas!” said she, “you only jeer me; it is not for such as I am to go thither.”
“Thou art in the right of it,” replied they; “it would make the people laugh to see a Cinderwench at a ball.”
Anyone but Cinderella would have dressed their heads awry, but she was very good, and dressed them perfectly well They were almost two days without eating, so much were they transported with joy. They broke above a dozen laces in trying to be laced up close, that they might have a fine slender shape, and they were continually at their looking-glass. At last the happy day came; they went to Court, and Cinderella followed them with her eyes as long as she could, and when she had lost sight of them, she fell a-crying.
Her godmother, who saw her all in tears, asked her what was the matter.
“I wish I could–I wish I could–”; she was not able to speak the rest, being interrupted by her tears and sobbing.
This godmother of hers, who was a fairy, said to her, “Thou wishest thou couldst go to the ball; is it not so?”
“Y–es,” cried Cinderella, with a great sigh.
“Well,” said her godmother, “be but a good girl, and I will contrive that thou shalt go.” Then she took her into her chamber, and said to her, “Run into the garden, and bring me a pumpkin.”
Cinderella went immediately to gather the finest she could get, and brought it to her godmother, not being able to imagine how this pumpkin could make her go to the ball. Her godmother scooped out all the inside of it, having left nothing but the rind; which done, she struck it with her wand, and the pumpkin was instantly turned into a fine coach, gilded all over with gold.
She then went to look into her mouse-trap, where she found six mice, all alive, and ordered Cinderella to lift up a little the trapdoor, when, giving each mouse, as it went out, a little tap with her wand, the mouse was that moment turned into a fine horse, which altogether made a very fine set of six horses of a beautiful mouse-colored dapple-gray. Being at a loss for a coachman,
“I will go and see,” says Cinderella, “if there is never a rat in the rat-trap–we may make a coachman of him.”
“Thou art in the right,” replied her godmother; “go and look.”
Cinderella brought the trap to her, and in it there were three huge rats. The fairy made choice of one of the three which had the largest beard, and, having touched him with her wand, he was turned into a fat, jolly coach- man, who had the smartest whiskers eyes ever beheld. After that, she said to her:
“Go again into the garden, and you will find six lizards behind the watering-pot, bring them to me.”
She had no sooner done so but her godmother turned them into six footmen, who skipped up immediately behind the coach, with their liveries all bedaubed with gold and silver, and clung as close behind each other as if they had done nothing else their whole lives. The Fairy then said to Cinderella: “Well, you see here an equipage fit to go to the ball with; are you not pleased with it?”
“Oh! yes,” cried she; “but must I go thither as I am, in these nasty rags?”
Her godmother only just touched her with her wand, and, at the same instant, her clothes were turned into cloth of gold and silver, all beset with jewels. This done, she gave her a pair of glass slippers, the prettiest in the whole world. Being thus decked out, she got up into her coach; but her godmother, above all things, commanded her not to stay till after midnight, telling her, at the same time, that if she stayed one moment longer, the coach would be a pumpkin again, her horses mice, her coachman a rat, her footmen lizards, and her clothes become just as they were before.
She promised her godmother she would not fail of leaving the ball before midnight; and then away she drives, scarce able to contain herself for joy. The King’s son who was told that a great princess, whom nobody knew, was come, ran out to receive her; he gave her his hand as she alighted out of the coach, and led her into the ball, among all the company. There was immediately a profound silence, they left off dancing, and the violins ceased to play, so attentive was everyone to contemplate the singular beauties of the unknown new-comer. Nothing was then heard but a confused noise of:
“Ha! how handsome she is! Ha! how handsome she is!”
The King himself, old as he was, could not help watching her, and telling the Queen softly that it was a long time since he had seen so beautiful and lovely a creature.
All the ladies were busied in considering her clothes and headdress, that they might have some made next day after the same pattern, provided they could meet with such fine material and as able hands to make them.
The King’s son conducted her to the most honorable seat, and afterward took her out to dance with him; she danced so very gracefully that they all more and more admired her. A fine collation was served up, whereof the young prince ate not a morsel, so intently was he busied in gazing on her.
She went and sat down by her sisters, showing them a thousand civilities, giving them part of the oranges and citrons which the Prince had presented her with, which very much surprised them, for they did not know her. While Cinderella was thus amusing her sisters, she heard the clock strike eleven and three-quarters, whereupon she immediately made a courtesy to the company and hasted away as fast as she could.
When she got home she ran to seek out her godmother, and, after having thanked her, she said she could not but heartily wish she might go next day to the ball, because the King’s son had desired her.
As she was eagerly telling her godmother whatever had passed at the ball, her two sisters knocked at the door, which Cinderella ran and opened.
“How long you have stayed!” cried she, gaping, rubbing her eyes and stretching herself as if she had been just waked out of her sleep; she had not, however, any manner of inclination to sleep since they went from home.
“If thou hadst been at the ball,” said one of her sisters, “thou wouldst not have been tired with it. There came thither the finest princess, the most beautiful ever was seen with mortal eyes; she showed us a thousand civilities, and gave us oranges and citrons.”
Cinderella seemed very indifferent in the matter; indeed, she asked them the name of that princess; but they told her they did not know it, and that the King’s son was very uneasy on her account and would give all the world to know who she was. At this Cinderella, smiling, replied:
“She must, then, be very beautiful indeed; how happy you have been! Could not I see her? Ah! dear Miss Charlotte, do lend me your yellow suit of clothes which you wear every day.”
“Ay, to be sure!” cried Miss Charlotte; “lend my clothes to such a dirty Cinderwench as thou art! I should be a fool.”
Cinderella, indeed, expected well such answer, and was very glad of the refusal; for she would have been sadly put to it if her sister had lent her what she asked for jestingly.
The next day the two sisters were at the ball, and so was Cinderella, but dressed more magnificently than before. The King’s son was always by her, and never ceased his compliments and kind speeches to her; to whom all this was so far from being tiresome that she quite forgot what her godmother had recommended to her; so that she, at last, counted the clock striking twelve when she took it to be no more than eleven; she then rose up and fled, as nimble as a deer. The Prince followed, but could not overtake her. She left behind one of her glass slippers, which the Prince took up most carefully. She got home but quite out of breath, and in her nasty old clothes, having nothing left her of all her finery but one of the little slippers, fellow to that she dropped. The guards at the palace gate were asked:
If they had not seen a princess go out.
Who said: They had seen nobody go out but a young girl, very meanly dressed, and who had more the air of a poor country wench than a gentlewoman.
When the two sisters returned from the ball Cinderella asked them: If they had been well diverted, and if the fine lady had been there.
They told her: Yes, but that she hurried away immediately when it struck twelve, and with so much haste that she dropped one of her little glass slippers, the prettiest in the world, which the King’s son had taken up; that he had done nothing but look at her all the time at the ball, and that most certainly he was very much in love with the beautiful person who owned the glass slipper.
What they said was very true; for a few days after the King’s son caused it to be proclaimed, by sound of trumpet, that he would marry her whose foot the slipper would just fit. They whom he employed began to try it upon the princesses, then the duchesses and all the Court, but in vain; it was brought to the two sisters, who did all they possibly could to thrust their foot into the slipper, but they could not effect it. Cinderella, who saw all this, and knew her slipper, said to them, laughing:
“Let me see if it will not fit me.”
Her sisters burst out a-laughing, and began to banter her. The gentleman who was sent to try the slipper looked earnestly at Cinderella, and, finding her very handsome, said:
It was but just that she should try, and that he had orders to let everyone make trial.
He obliged Cinderella to sit down, and, putting the slipper to her foot, he found it went on very easily, and fitted her as if it had been made of wax. The astonishment her two sisters were in was excessively great, but still abundantly greater when Cinderella pulled out of her pocket the other slipper, and put it on her foot. Thereupon, in came her godmother, who, having touched with her wand Cinderella’s clothes, made them richer and more magnificent than any of those she had before.
And now her two sisters found her to be that fine, beautiful lady whom they had seen at the ball. They threw themselves at her feet to beg pardon for all the ill- treatment they had made her undergo. Cinderella took them up, and, as she embraced them, cried:
That she forgave them with all her heart, and desired them always to love her.
She was conducted to the young prince, dressed as she was; he thought her more charming than ever, and, a few days after, married her. Cinderella, who was no less good than beautiful, gave her two sisters lodgings in the palace.
ONCE there was a gentleman who married, for his second wife, the proudest and most haughty woman that was ever seen. She had, by a former husband, two daughters of her own humor, who were, indeed, exactly like her in all things. He had likewise, by another wife, a young daughter, but of unparalleled goodness and sweetness of temper, which she took from her mother, who was the best creature in the world.
No sooner were the ceremonies of the wedding over but the mother-in-law began to show herself in her true colors. She could not bear the good qualities of this pretty girl, and the less because they made her own daughters appear the more odious. She employed her in the meanest work of the house: she scoured the dishes, tables, etc., and scrubbed madam’s chamber, and those of misses, her daughters; she lay up in a sorry garret, upon a wretched straw bed, while her sisters lay in fine rooms, with floors all inlaid, upon beds of the very newest fashion, and where they had looking-glasses so large that they might see themselves at their full length from head to foot.
The poor girl bore all patiently, and dared not tell her father, who would have rattled her off; for his wife governed him entirely. When she had done her work, she used to go into the chimney-corner, and sit down among cinders and ashes, which made her commonly be called Cinderwench; but the youngest, who was not so rude and uncivil as the eldest, called her Cinderella. However, Cinderella, notwithstanding her mean apparel, was a hundred times handsomer than her sisters, though they were always dressed very richly.
It happened that the King’s son gave a ball, and invited all persons of fashion to it. Our young misses were also invited, for they cut a very grand figure among the quality. They were mightily delighted at this invitation, and wonderfully busy in choosing out such gowns, petticoats, and head-clothes as might become them. This was a new trouble to Cinderella; for it was she who ironed her sisters’ linen, and plaited their ruffles; they talked all day long of nothing but how they should be dressed.
“For my part,” said the eldest, “I will wear my red velvet suit with French trimming.”
“And I,” said the youngest, “shall have my usual petticoat; but then, to make amends for that, I will put on my gold-flowered manteau, and my diamond stomacher, which is far from being the most ordinary one in the world.”
They sent for the best tire-woman they could get to make up their head-dresses and adjust their double pinners, and they had their red brushes and patches from Mademoiselle de la Poche.
Cinderella was likewise called up to them to be consulted in all these matters, for she had excellent notions, and advised them always for the best, nay, and offered her services to dress their heads, which they were very willing she should do. As she was doing this, they said to her:
“Cinderella, would you not be glad to go to the ball?”
“Alas!” said she, “you only jeer me; it is not for such as I am to go thither.”
“Thou art in the right of it,” replied they; “it would make the people laugh to see a Cinderwench at a ball.”
Anyone but Cinderella would have dressed their heads awry, but she was very good, and dressed them perfectly well They were almost two days without eating, so much were they transported with joy. They broke above a dozen laces in trying to be laced up close, that they might have a fine slender shape, and they were continually at their looking-glass. At last the happy day came; they went to Court, and Cinderella followed them with her eyes as long as she could, and when she had lost sight of them, she fell a-crying.
Her godmother, who saw her all in tears, asked her what was the matter.
“I wish I could–I wish I could–”; she was not able to speak the rest, being interrupted by her tears and sobbing.
This godmother of hers, who was a fairy, said to her, “Thou wishest thou couldst go to the ball; is it not so?”
“Y–es,” cried Cinderella, with a great sigh.
“Well,” said her godmother, “be but a good girl, and I will contrive that thou shalt go.” Then she took her into her chamber, and said to her, “Run into the garden, and bring me a pumpkin.”
Cinderella went immediately to gather the finest she could get, and brought it to her godmother, not being able to imagine how this pumpkin could make her go to the ball. Her godmother scooped out all the inside of it, having left nothing but the rind; which done, she struck it with her wand, and the pumpkin was instantly turned into a fine coach, gilded all over with gold.
She then went to look into her mouse-trap, where she found six mice, all alive, and ordered Cinderella to lift up a little the trapdoor, when, giving each mouse, as it went out, a little tap with her wand, the mouse was that moment turned into a fine horse, which altogether made a very fine set of six horses of a beautiful mouse-colored dapple-gray. Being at a loss for a coachman,
“I will go and see,” says Cinderella, “if there is never a rat in the rat-trap–we may make a coachman of him.”
“Thou art in the right,” replied her godmother; “go and look.”
Cinderella brought the trap to her, and in it there were three huge rats. The fairy made choice of one of the three which had the largest beard, and, having touched him with her wand, he was turned into a fat, jolly coach- man, who had the smartest whiskers eyes ever beheld. After that, she said to her:
“Go again into the garden, and you will find six lizards behind the watering-pot, bring them to me.”
She had no sooner done so but her godmother turned them into six footmen, who skipped up immediately behind the coach, with their liveries all bedaubed with gold and silver, and clung as close behind each other as if they had done nothing else their whole lives. The Fairy then said to Cinderella: “Well, you see here an equipage fit to go to the ball with; are you not pleased with it?”
“Oh! yes,” cried she; “but must I go thither as I am, in these nasty rags?”
Her godmother only just touched her with her wand, and, at the same instant, her clothes were turned into cloth of gold and silver, all beset with jewels. This done, she gave her a pair of glass slippers, the prettiest in the whole world. Being thus decked out, she got up into her coach; but her godmother, above all things, commanded her not to stay till after midnight, telling her, at the same time, that if she stayed one moment longer, the coach would be a pumpkin again, her horses mice, her coachman a rat, her footmen lizards, and her clothes become just as they were before.
She promised her godmother she would not fail of leaving the ball before midnight; and then away she drives, scarce able to contain herself for joy. The King’s son who was told that a great princess, whom nobody knew, was come, ran out to receive her; he gave her his hand as she alighted out of the coach, and led her into the ball, among all the company. There was immediately a profound silence, they left off dancing, and the violins ceased to play, so attentive was everyone to contemplate the singular beauties of the unknown new-comer. Nothing was then heard but a confused noise of:
“Ha! how handsome she is! Ha! how handsome she is!”
The King himself, old as he was, could not help watching her, and telling the Queen softly that it was a long time since he had seen so beautiful and lovely a creature.
All the ladies were busied in considering her clothes and headdress, that they might have some made next day after the same pattern, provided they could meet with such fine material and as able hands to make them.
The King’s son conducted her to the most honorable seat, and afterward took her out to dance with him; she danced so very gracefully that they all more and more admired her. A fine collation was served up, whereof the young prince ate not a morsel, so intently was he busied in gazing on her.
She went and sat down by her sisters, showing them a thousand civilities, giving them part of the oranges and citrons which the Prince had presented her with, which very much surprised them, for they did not know her. While Cinderella was thus amusing her sisters, she heard the clock strike eleven and three-quarters, whereupon she immediately made a courtesy to the company and hasted away as fast as she could.
When she got home she ran to seek out her godmother, and, after having thanked her, she said she could not but heartily wish she might go next day to the ball, because the King’s son had desired her.
As she was eagerly telling her godmother whatever had passed at the ball, her two sisters knocked at the door, which Cinderella ran and opened.
“How long you have stayed!” cried she, gaping, rubbing her eyes and stretching herself as if she had been just waked out of her sleep; she had not, however, any manner of inclination to sleep since they went from home.
“If thou hadst been at the ball,” said one of her sisters, “thou wouldst not have been tired with it. There came thither the finest princess, the most beautiful ever was seen with mortal eyes; she showed us a thousand civilities, and gave us oranges and citrons.”
Cinderella seemed very indifferent in the matter; indeed, she asked them the name of that princess; but they told her they did not know it, and that the King’s son was very uneasy on her account and would give all the world to know who she was. At this Cinderella, smiling, replied:
“She must, then, be very beautiful indeed; how happy you have been! Could not I see her? Ah! dear Miss Charlotte, do lend me your yellow suit of clothes which you wear every day.”
“Ay, to be sure!” cried Miss Charlotte; “lend my clothes to such a dirty Cinderwench as thou art! I should be a fool.”
Cinderella, indeed, expected well such answer, and was very glad of the refusal; for she would have been sadly put to it if her sister had lent her what she asked for jestingly.
The next day the two sisters were at the ball, and so was Cinderella, but dressed more magnificently than before. The King’s son was always by her, and never ceased his compliments and kind speeches to her; to whom all this was so far from being tiresome that she quite forgot what her godmother had recommended to her; so that she, at last, counted the clock striking twelve when she took it to be no more than eleven; she then rose up and fled, as nimble as a deer. The Prince followed, but could not overtake her. She left behind one of her glass slippers, which the Prince took up most carefully. She got home but quite out of breath, and in her nasty old clothes, having nothing left her of all her finery but one of the little slippers, fellow to that she dropped. The guards at the palace gate were asked:
If they had not seen a princess go out.
Who said: They had seen nobody go out but a young girl, very meanly dressed, and who had more the air of a poor country wench than a gentlewoman.
When the two sisters returned from the ball Cinderella asked them: If they had been well diverted, and if the fine lady had been there.
They told her: Yes, but that she hurried away immediately when it struck twelve, and with so much haste that she dropped one of her little glass slippers, the prettiest in the world, which the King’s son had taken up; that he had done nothing but look at her all the time at the ball, and that most certainly he was very much in love with the beautiful person who owned the glass slipper.
What they said was very true; for a few days after the King’s son caused it to be proclaimed, by sound of trumpet, that he would marry her whose foot the slipper would just fit. They whom he employed began to try it upon the princesses, then the duchesses and all the Court, but in vain; it was brought to the two sisters, who did all they possibly could to thrust their foot into the slipper, but they could not effect it. Cinderella, who saw all this, and knew her slipper, said to them, laughing:
“Let me see if it will not fit me.”
Her sisters burst out a-laughing, and began to banter her. The gentleman who was sent to try the slipper looked earnestly at Cinderella, and, finding her very handsome, said:
It was but just that she should try, and that he had orders to let everyone make trial.
He obliged Cinderella to sit down, and, putting the slipper to her foot, he found it went on very easily, and fitted her as if it had been made of wax. The astonishment her two sisters were in was excessively great, but still abundantly greater when Cinderella pulled out of her pocket the other slipper, and put it on her foot. Thereupon, in came her godmother, who, having touched with her wand Cinderella’s clothes, made them richer and more magnificent than any of those she had before.
And now her two sisters found her to be that fine, beautiful lady whom they had seen at the ball. They threw themselves at her feet to beg pardon for all the ill- treatment they had made her undergo. Cinderella took them up, and, as she embraced them, cried:
That she forgave them with all her heart, and desired them always to love her.
She was conducted to the young prince, dressed as she was; he thought her more charming than ever, and, a few days after, married her. Cinderella, who was no less good than beautiful, gave her two sisters lodgings in the palace.
ARTICLES CRIMES
Beware of Internet Crimes
CRIMES IN INTERNET (CYBER CRIME)
AND WHAT IS HACKING, CRACKING, carding, phishing, spamming and DEFACING etc.?
Indonesia is not only famous as the most corrupt country in the world, but also the State with the "carder" highest in the world, after Ukraine. "Carder" are criminals on the internet, who buy goods in virtual stores (online shopping) using someone else's credit card. Although the Indonesian Internet users is still small compared to other Southeast Asian countries, much less than in Asia or the developed countries, a citizen of Indonesia in the Internet already "popular" and polluted! Indonesia was "blacklisted" in a number of reputable online shopping, especially at amazon.com and ebay.com credit cards from Indonesia being watched even blocked. Indeed, as a new communication medium, the Internet provides a million benefits and convenience to the wearer. But the internet has also invited negative excesses, in a variety of crimes menggloblal. For example, the act of distributing product pornorgrafi, pedophilia, gambling, junk (spam), various viruses, sabotage, and various scams, such as carding, phishing, spamming, etc.. Severe, hence the name of the state trail.
Here are some types of crime via the internet:
Carding
Carding is shopping using credit card numbers and identities of others, which is obtained illegally, usually by stealing the data on the internet. The name the culprit was "carder". Another term for this type of crime is cyberfroud alias fraud in cyberspace. According to research Clear Commerce Inc., information technology company based in Texas - the U.S., Indonesia has a "carder" the world's second largest after the Ukrainian. As many as 20 percent of transactions over the Internet from Indonesia is the result of carding. As a result, many online shopping sites that block the IP or Internet protocol (Internet computer addresses) from Indonesia. If we're shopping online, shop online purchase form does not list the name of the Indonesian state. This means that Indonesia has not allowed consumers shopping on the site.
According to the observing ICT Watch, who observed the world of internet agencies in Indonesia, the carder is now operating further away, to commit fraud through chat rooms on mIRC. The way the carder offering goods as if the results of his carding a low price on the channel. For example, the laptop sold for Rp 1,000,000. Once there is an interest, carder ask buyers to send money to their account. Money obtained, but the goods never delivered.
HACKING
Hacking is an activity through a computer program owned by the person / the other party. Hackers are people who like ngoprek computer, have the expertise to make and read a particular program, and obsessed with watching the safety (security) it. "Hacker" has a double face, there is a grafter dear. "Hacker" Dear tells a computer programmer breached, the existence of weaknesses in the program made, so that it can "leak", to be fixed. Meanwhile, hackers grafter, through the programs of others to destroy and steal data.
CRACKING
Cracking is hacking for malicious purposes. The term for "cracker" is a "hacker" black hat (black hat hackers). Unlike the "carder" the only credit card peek, "cracker" peek deposits of customers at various banks or other sensitive data centers to benefit themselves. Although both computer security through other people, "hacker" is more focused on the process. While the "cracker" is more focused to enjoy the results. The case yesterday, the FBI in cooperation with Dutch police and Australian police arrested a teenager who has been through the cracker 50 thousand computers and peeked 1.3 million account various banks in the world. By its action, "cracker" named Owen Thor Walker has been making money as much as Rp1, 8 trillion. "Cracker" 18 years in the junior high school was arrested after a criminal activity in cyberspace investigated since 2006.
DEFACING
Defacing is an activity to change the site's pages / websites of other parties, as happened at the site Menkominfo and the Golkar Party, the central bank recently and the Commission website during the 2004 election. Deface any action which is purely for fun, skill performance, showing off the ability to program, but there is also evil, to steal data and sell to other parties.
Phishing
Phishing is the fishing activities of computer users on the internet (user) will provide information for self-user data (username) and password (passwords) on a website that has been deface. Phishing is usually directed at online banking users. Fields user data and passwords that have been sent vital eventually will become the property of criminals and used to spending with credit cards or cash accounts held by victims.
Spamming
Spamming is the sending of news or advertising via electronic mail (e-mail) is not desired. Spam is often referred to as bulk mail or junk e-mail alias of "junk". Nonetheless, many are affected and become victims. The most widely are e-mail delivery to gifts, lotteries, or people who claim to have an account at a bank in Africa or the Middle East, ask for help "netters" to melt, with the promise of profit sharing. Then the victim requested her account number, and send money / funds as an angler, of course denominated in U.S. dollars, and later there are reportedly no longer. A private university rector in Indonesia ever cheated to Rp1 billion reported in due spaming like this.
Malware
Malware is a computer program to find the weaknesses of a software. Generally malware created to break or damage any software or operating system. Malware is composed of various kinds, namely: viruses, worms, Trojan horses, adware, browser hijackers, etc.. In the market computer equipment and software stores (software) is already available anti-spam and anti virus and anti malware. However, for those who do not watch out there's always a hit. Because viruses and malware makers generally keep creative and productive in creating programs to work on his victims.
Beware of Internet Crimes ..!
Maya World dedemit Random-random Important Sites
Currently, the handling of crime in cyberspace (cyber crime) is still minimal, even though Indonesia is one of the country with the highest cases of cyber crime in the Ukraine. Handling cases of crimes of this type does require special skills of law enforcement.
Of the cases revealed so far, the perpetrators known to have a level of intelligence above the average. In addition to its economic motives, some hackers perform actions damaging the website of others just to show off the capabilities. The last case, Rizky Martin, 27, aka Steve Rass, 28, and Texanto alias Doni Michael doing the purchase of goods on behalf of Team Tamsin Invex Corp., a company located in the U.S. via the internet. Both break through a credit card via internet banking of Rp350 million. Two players arrested Cyber Crime Polda Metro Jaya on June 10, 2008 at a cafe in the area Lenteng Agung, South Jakarta. Early May 2008, Police Headquarters catch "hackers" called Iqra Intercession, 24, in a cafe in Batam, Riau, after tracking the IP addresses with the nick name alias Nogra Iqra. The young high school graduates are considered thin-brained cop and well known in hacker circles. He had to break down the data of a website and then sell it to foreign companies worth Rp600 thousand dollars, or about Rp 6 billion. In his confession, the local hackers to break 1257 this has been a general networking site owned abroad. Even the site of President SBY will never be disturbed, but he thought better.
Another case that has revealed the police in 2004 when the site is owned by the KPU (General Elections Commission), which also disturbed hackers. Display a symbol of the 24 parties was replaced with the name 'pink party', 'party cucak Rowo' and others. Perpetrators, known then, named Daniel Firman, 24, a student from Bandung who then arrested Polda Metro Jaya. Motivation of the perpetrator, it is said, just wanted to try out the security system at the site of the Commission which the government bought it for Rp 200 billion. And it worked.
CREDIT CARD collapse
Data at Police Headquarters, of about 200 cyber crime cases handled nearly 90 percent carding dominated by foreign targets. Internet activity is cross country. The most frequently became targets are the United States, Australia, Canada and others. Perpetrators come from big cities like Yogyakarta, Bandung, Jakarta, Semarang, Medan and Riau. The main motive is economic. Ranking second with destructive hacking and hacking into websites of other parties with a variety of purposes, ranging from breaking into data and then sell them or fraudulent damage a particular site.
Other Internet crimes, pornography that make the Internet as an arena of prostitution. Some porn sites are used as prostitution and sex accessories sales never investigated Jakarta Police, and managers were arrested. Gambling sites like indobetonline.com, Police Headquarters had also dismantled. In addition, recently, police in Tangerang also dismantle gambling site that provides gambling ball tangkas.net agile, Mickey Mouse and others. Other crimes, internet fraud.
"Internet Crimes there are two categories, namely primary target computer facilities as a means of technology and not only as a means. Category into two, making the computer as a means of committing crimes.
CRIMES IN INTERNET (CYBER CRIME)
AND WHAT IS HACKING, CRACKING, carding, phishing, spamming and DEFACING etc.?
Indonesia is not only famous as the most corrupt country in the world, but also the State with the "carder" highest in the world, after Ukraine. "Carder" are criminals on the internet, who buy goods in virtual stores (online shopping) using someone else's credit card. Although the Indonesian Internet users is still small compared to other Southeast Asian countries, much less than in Asia or the developed countries, a citizen of Indonesia in the Internet already "popular" and polluted! Indonesia was "blacklisted" in a number of reputable online shopping, especially at amazon.com and ebay.com credit cards from Indonesia being watched even blocked. Indeed, as a new communication medium, the Internet provides a million benefits and convenience to the wearer. But the internet has also invited negative excesses, in a variety of crimes menggloblal. For example, the act of distributing product pornorgrafi, pedophilia, gambling, junk (spam), various viruses, sabotage, and various scams, such as carding, phishing, spamming, etc.. Severe, hence the name of the state trail.
Here are some types of crime via the internet:
Carding
Carding is shopping using credit card numbers and identities of others, which is obtained illegally, usually by stealing the data on the internet. The name the culprit was "carder". Another term for this type of crime is cyberfroud alias fraud in cyberspace. According to research Clear Commerce Inc., information technology company based in Texas - the U.S., Indonesia has a "carder" the world's second largest after the Ukrainian. As many as 20 percent of transactions over the Internet from Indonesia is the result of carding. As a result, many online shopping sites that block the IP or Internet protocol (Internet computer addresses) from Indonesia. If we're shopping online, shop online purchase form does not list the name of the Indonesian state. This means that Indonesia has not allowed consumers shopping on the site.
According to the observing ICT Watch, who observed the world of internet agencies in Indonesia, the carder is now operating further away, to commit fraud through chat rooms on mIRC. The way the carder offering goods as if the results of his carding a low price on the channel. For example, the laptop sold for Rp 1,000,000. Once there is an interest, carder ask buyers to send money to their account. Money obtained, but the goods never delivered.
HACKING
Hacking is an activity through a computer program owned by the person / the other party. Hackers are people who like ngoprek computer, have the expertise to make and read a particular program, and obsessed with watching the safety (security) it. "Hacker" has a double face, there is a grafter dear. "Hacker" Dear tells a computer programmer breached, the existence of weaknesses in the program made, so that it can "leak", to be fixed. Meanwhile, hackers grafter, through the programs of others to destroy and steal data.
CRACKING
Cracking is hacking for malicious purposes. The term for "cracker" is a "hacker" black hat (black hat hackers). Unlike the "carder" the only credit card peek, "cracker" peek deposits of customers at various banks or other sensitive data centers to benefit themselves. Although both computer security through other people, "hacker" is more focused on the process. While the "cracker" is more focused to enjoy the results. The case yesterday, the FBI in cooperation with Dutch police and Australian police arrested a teenager who has been through the cracker 50 thousand computers and peeked 1.3 million account various banks in the world. By its action, "cracker" named Owen Thor Walker has been making money as much as Rp1, 8 trillion. "Cracker" 18 years in the junior high school was arrested after a criminal activity in cyberspace investigated since 2006.
DEFACING
Defacing is an activity to change the site's pages / websites of other parties, as happened at the site Menkominfo and the Golkar Party, the central bank recently and the Commission website during the 2004 election. Deface any action which is purely for fun, skill performance, showing off the ability to program, but there is also evil, to steal data and sell to other parties.
Phishing
Phishing is the fishing activities of computer users on the internet (user) will provide information for self-user data (username) and password (passwords) on a website that has been deface. Phishing is usually directed at online banking users. Fields user data and passwords that have been sent vital eventually will become the property of criminals and used to spending with credit cards or cash accounts held by victims.
Spamming
Spamming is the sending of news or advertising via electronic mail (e-mail) is not desired. Spam is often referred to as bulk mail or junk e-mail alias of "junk". Nonetheless, many are affected and become victims. The most widely are e-mail delivery to gifts, lotteries, or people who claim to have an account at a bank in Africa or the Middle East, ask for help "netters" to melt, with the promise of profit sharing. Then the victim requested her account number, and send money / funds as an angler, of course denominated in U.S. dollars, and later there are reportedly no longer. A private university rector in Indonesia ever cheated to Rp1 billion reported in due spaming like this.
Malware
Malware is a computer program to find the weaknesses of a software. Generally malware created to break or damage any software or operating system. Malware is composed of various kinds, namely: viruses, worms, Trojan horses, adware, browser hijackers, etc.. In the market computer equipment and software stores (software) is already available anti-spam and anti virus and anti malware. However, for those who do not watch out there's always a hit. Because viruses and malware makers generally keep creative and productive in creating programs to work on his victims.
Beware of Internet Crimes ..!
Maya World dedemit Random-random Important Sites
Currently, the handling of crime in cyberspace (cyber crime) is still minimal, even though Indonesia is one of the country with the highest cases of cyber crime in the Ukraine. Handling cases of crimes of this type does require special skills of law enforcement.
Of the cases revealed so far, the perpetrators known to have a level of intelligence above the average. In addition to its economic motives, some hackers perform actions damaging the website of others just to show off the capabilities. The last case, Rizky Martin, 27, aka Steve Rass, 28, and Texanto alias Doni Michael doing the purchase of goods on behalf of Team Tamsin Invex Corp., a company located in the U.S. via the internet. Both break through a credit card via internet banking of Rp350 million. Two players arrested Cyber Crime Polda Metro Jaya on June 10, 2008 at a cafe in the area Lenteng Agung, South Jakarta. Early May 2008, Police Headquarters catch "hackers" called Iqra Intercession, 24, in a cafe in Batam, Riau, after tracking the IP addresses with the nick name alias Nogra Iqra. The young high school graduates are considered thin-brained cop and well known in hacker circles. He had to break down the data of a website and then sell it to foreign companies worth Rp600 thousand dollars, or about Rp 6 billion. In his confession, the local hackers to break 1257 this has been a general networking site owned abroad. Even the site of President SBY will never be disturbed, but he thought better.
Another case that has revealed the police in 2004 when the site is owned by the KPU (General Elections Commission), which also disturbed hackers. Display a symbol of the 24 parties was replaced with the name 'pink party', 'party cucak Rowo' and others. Perpetrators, known then, named Daniel Firman, 24, a student from Bandung who then arrested Polda Metro Jaya. Motivation of the perpetrator, it is said, just wanted to try out the security system at the site of the Commission which the government bought it for Rp 200 billion. And it worked.
CREDIT CARD collapse
Data at Police Headquarters, of about 200 cyber crime cases handled nearly 90 percent carding dominated by foreign targets. Internet activity is cross country. The most frequently became targets are the United States, Australia, Canada and others. Perpetrators come from big cities like Yogyakarta, Bandung, Jakarta, Semarang, Medan and Riau. The main motive is economic. Ranking second with destructive hacking and hacking into websites of other parties with a variety of purposes, ranging from breaking into data and then sell them or fraudulent damage a particular site.
Other Internet crimes, pornography that make the Internet as an arena of prostitution. Some porn sites are used as prostitution and sex accessories sales never investigated Jakarta Police, and managers were arrested. Gambling sites like indobetonline.com, Police Headquarters had also dismantled. In addition, recently, police in Tangerang also dismantle gambling site that provides gambling ball tangkas.net agile, Mickey Mouse and others. Other crimes, internet fraud.
"Internet Crimes there are two categories, namely primary target computer facilities as a means of technology and not only as a means. Category into two, making the computer as a means of committing crimes.
ARTICLES FAMILY
baitijannati - Beginning of a person's life is starting to settle down Kabul's final offer, that's when everything becomes halal haram. And for those who have been married she had taken control of half of his religion.
Anyone who got married, then he has mastered half of his religion, because it let him devoted to God in maintaining the other half. [HR. al-Hakim].
A household is like a sturdy building, wall, roof, sills, doors function properly. If the door is used as a substitute for, the house will leak, or any other function then the house will collapse. Likewise, household husband, wife and child should know their respective functions, otherwise it may collapse or messy household.
Let's examine one by one each function husband and wife.
Liabilities Husband
The husband has the obligation to make a living to support his family, but besides that he also serves as head of household or a leader in the household. Allah SWT says in this regard:
The man is a leader for women, because Allah has preferred some of them over some of the others and because they have spent most of their property. (Surat an-Nisa ': 34).
Getting married is not just a matter capable of making money, although it is also important, but not one of the most important. Husband works hard to drudge sweat to find a halal sustenance but apparently not capable of being a leader for his family.
O ye who believe, guard yourselves and your families from hell fire fuel is men and stones. (Surat at-Tahriim: 6).
They also must either treat his wife with the good:
And pergauilah your wives well. Then if you do not like them, (so be patient) because maybe you do not like something, but God made him that much good. (Surat an-Nisa ': 19).
Whoever liver encouraging wife, (then) seemed to cry fear of Allah. Anyone who cried fear Allah, then Allah has forbidden her from hell. Indeed when the husband and wife for each other, then God watching them both with great grace. When husband and wife grabbed the palm of the hand (knead), then berguguranlah sins of the husband and wife between her fingers. [HR. Maisarah bin Ali from the Ar-Rafi 'from Abu Sa'eed al-Khudzri].
In one story is told, one day the wives of Prophet gathered before him and asked, "Among the wives of the Apostle, who is most loved?" Of the Prophet only smiled and said, "I'll tell you later."
After that, on different occasions, the Prophet gave a to his wives each a ring as he gave the message that does not tell the other wives. Then one day the day the wives of the Prophet were together again and ask the same question. Then the Prophet said, "The most I care about is that I gave the ring to him." Later, the Prophet's wives were satisfied smile just thinking that only he who gets the ring and felt that he was not isolated.
Even someone keshalihan level is determined by the extent to which his attitude toward his wife. If his attitude towards good wife, then he is a good man. Conversely, if the bad treatment of his wife then he is a bad man.
Thou shalt feed a wife that when you eat and you give him clothes when you get dressed, and do not ever hit the face and do not denigrate him and never parted from him except in the house. [Al-Hadith].
The best person among you is the best treatment of his family. Indeed I myself was the best among you in treating my family. [Al-Hadith].
So, the husband should not busy making a living outside the home and then forget about responsibilities as family leaders. The husband is obliged to control and supervise the child and his wife, so they always obey God's command, leaving the prohibition of God Almighty, so avoid the torment of hell fire. He will be held accountable by God's answer when his wife and children leave the worship compulsory, do disobedience, open aurat, seclusion, drugs, stealing, and others.
Each of you is leader and every leader will be asked for accountability for the lead. [HR. Bukhari].
Liabilities Wife
My wife has a duty to obey their husbands, educate children and keep his honor (veil, seclusion, tabaruj, etc..). Obedience is required for a wife is not without reason. Husband as the head, directly responsible for family support, protect and maintain the safety of family they were born-the mind, a world-afterlife.
Such responsibility is not playing weight. The husband should try to take his wife and his children to be able to obtain assurance of heaven. If the family member that until fall to hell because one supervisor, then the husband who will bear the torment of the future.
A wife's obedience to their husbands in order to obey Allah and His Messenger is the way to heaven in the world and the hereafter. The wife should disobey her husband if her husband orders contrary to Islamic rules', eg told to gamble, banned headscarves, and others.
Women are five times when prayer, fasting month of Ramadan, will maintain his honor and obey her husband, she entered the door of heaven wherever desired. [Al-Hadith].
This is the jewelry world, and the best jewels are women Shalihah. [HR. Muslim, Ahmad and an-Nasa'i].
Women who Shalihah who obey God is to maintain self again when her husband was not there, because God has kept (them). (Surat an-Nisa ': 34).
Obey Allah, obey the Apostle, wearing the hijab (clothing) which covers all of his private parts and not to show off beauty (tabarruj) as ignorant woman. (Surat al-Ahzab: 32).
Had I sent one to bow down to others. So I'll have a woman prostrate to her husband because of the magnitude of their husband's rights. [Al-Hadith].
The best is women who please you if you looked at him and obey you if you ordered him, and if you are traveling she keep herself and her honor guard treasure and yours. [Al-Hadith].
Dispute
Husband is forbidden hit / hurt the wife, if there is a dispute there are several steps that can be achieved,
The wives are you worried about pembangkangannya, then encourage them, separate them from the bed, and beat them (with punches that do not harm). However, if they obey you, do not you guys looking for a way to bother them. (Surat an-Nisa ': 34).
Thou shalt feed a wife that when you eat and you give him clothes when you get dressed, and do not ever hit the face and do not denigrate him and never parted from him except in the house. [Al-Hadith].
If you feel concerned about the existence of disputes between them, then utuslah an (arbitrator) of the family of her husband and alone peacemaker of the family of a wife. If both parties want an improvement, Allah will give taufik to husband and wife. (Surat an-Nisa ': 35).
Thus Islam set with perfect form so that the family life and happy family sakinah world hereafter. Wallahua'lam ..
Anyone who got married, then he has mastered half of his religion, because it let him devoted to God in maintaining the other half. [HR. al-Hakim].
A household is like a sturdy building, wall, roof, sills, doors function properly. If the door is used as a substitute for, the house will leak, or any other function then the house will collapse. Likewise, household husband, wife and child should know their respective functions, otherwise it may collapse or messy household.
Let's examine one by one each function husband and wife.
Liabilities Husband
The husband has the obligation to make a living to support his family, but besides that he also serves as head of household or a leader in the household. Allah SWT says in this regard:
The man is a leader for women, because Allah has preferred some of them over some of the others and because they have spent most of their property. (Surat an-Nisa ': 34).
Getting married is not just a matter capable of making money, although it is also important, but not one of the most important. Husband works hard to drudge sweat to find a halal sustenance but apparently not capable of being a leader for his family.
O ye who believe, guard yourselves and your families from hell fire fuel is men and stones. (Surat at-Tahriim: 6).
They also must either treat his wife with the good:
And pergauilah your wives well. Then if you do not like them, (so be patient) because maybe you do not like something, but God made him that much good. (Surat an-Nisa ': 19).
Whoever liver encouraging wife, (then) seemed to cry fear of Allah. Anyone who cried fear Allah, then Allah has forbidden her from hell. Indeed when the husband and wife for each other, then God watching them both with great grace. When husband and wife grabbed the palm of the hand (knead), then berguguranlah sins of the husband and wife between her fingers. [HR. Maisarah bin Ali from the Ar-Rafi 'from Abu Sa'eed al-Khudzri].
In one story is told, one day the wives of Prophet gathered before him and asked, "Among the wives of the Apostle, who is most loved?" Of the Prophet only smiled and said, "I'll tell you later."
After that, on different occasions, the Prophet gave a to his wives each a ring as he gave the message that does not tell the other wives. Then one day the day the wives of the Prophet were together again and ask the same question. Then the Prophet said, "The most I care about is that I gave the ring to him." Later, the Prophet's wives were satisfied smile just thinking that only he who gets the ring and felt that he was not isolated.
Even someone keshalihan level is determined by the extent to which his attitude toward his wife. If his attitude towards good wife, then he is a good man. Conversely, if the bad treatment of his wife then he is a bad man.
Thou shalt feed a wife that when you eat and you give him clothes when you get dressed, and do not ever hit the face and do not denigrate him and never parted from him except in the house. [Al-Hadith].
The best person among you is the best treatment of his family. Indeed I myself was the best among you in treating my family. [Al-Hadith].
So, the husband should not busy making a living outside the home and then forget about responsibilities as family leaders. The husband is obliged to control and supervise the child and his wife, so they always obey God's command, leaving the prohibition of God Almighty, so avoid the torment of hell fire. He will be held accountable by God's answer when his wife and children leave the worship compulsory, do disobedience, open aurat, seclusion, drugs, stealing, and others.
Each of you is leader and every leader will be asked for accountability for the lead. [HR. Bukhari].
Liabilities Wife
My wife has a duty to obey their husbands, educate children and keep his honor (veil, seclusion, tabaruj, etc..). Obedience is required for a wife is not without reason. Husband as the head, directly responsible for family support, protect and maintain the safety of family they were born-the mind, a world-afterlife.
Such responsibility is not playing weight. The husband should try to take his wife and his children to be able to obtain assurance of heaven. If the family member that until fall to hell because one supervisor, then the husband who will bear the torment of the future.
A wife's obedience to their husbands in order to obey Allah and His Messenger is the way to heaven in the world and the hereafter. The wife should disobey her husband if her husband orders contrary to Islamic rules', eg told to gamble, banned headscarves, and others.
Women are five times when prayer, fasting month of Ramadan, will maintain his honor and obey her husband, she entered the door of heaven wherever desired. [Al-Hadith].
This is the jewelry world, and the best jewels are women Shalihah. [HR. Muslim, Ahmad and an-Nasa'i].
Women who Shalihah who obey God is to maintain self again when her husband was not there, because God has kept (them). (Surat an-Nisa ': 34).
Obey Allah, obey the Apostle, wearing the hijab (clothing) which covers all of his private parts and not to show off beauty (tabarruj) as ignorant woman. (Surat al-Ahzab: 32).
Had I sent one to bow down to others. So I'll have a woman prostrate to her husband because of the magnitude of their husband's rights. [Al-Hadith].
The best is women who please you if you looked at him and obey you if you ordered him, and if you are traveling she keep herself and her honor guard treasure and yours. [Al-Hadith].
Dispute
Husband is forbidden hit / hurt the wife, if there is a dispute there are several steps that can be achieved,
The wives are you worried about pembangkangannya, then encourage them, separate them from the bed, and beat them (with punches that do not harm). However, if they obey you, do not you guys looking for a way to bother them. (Surat an-Nisa ': 34).
Thou shalt feed a wife that when you eat and you give him clothes when you get dressed, and do not ever hit the face and do not denigrate him and never parted from him except in the house. [Al-Hadith].
If you feel concerned about the existence of disputes between them, then utuslah an (arbitrator) of the family of her husband and alone peacemaker of the family of a wife. If both parties want an improvement, Allah will give taufik to husband and wife. (Surat an-Nisa ': 35).
Thus Islam set with perfect form so that the family life and happy family sakinah world hereafter. Wallahua'lam ..
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10 Tips to Finding and Maintaining Relationships Asmara
1. Do not fall in love with someone who is very potential. Too many men and women who have a friend or stay in a relationship with the expectation that others will change.
Be honest and be yourself and ask: "Can I love this person with the actual way in which they are now without hope for change?" if not, find another.
2. Do not worry about lust. In the sense that in a hurry, people having sex would create a false intimacy, which will lead to disappointment.
Take time to create a genuine emotional connection and let the passionate sexual relationship grow.
3. Do not ignore the desperation to have a relationship. For example, if he makes a statement like "I do not perform properly commitment," Trust him.
Ask yourself, "Is this person emotionally and situsioanal willing?" (People tend to spend time to his hobby and then a new partner).
4. Do not assume your friends are "physically" knowing what you want and need.
Responsible to express your feelings and need each other. This will avoid conflict and emotional connections in between you.
5. Accept your partner is. When the couple entered the honeymoon phase, they often feel satisfied with each other.
Continue to do romantic things with one another in every relationship, not only in the early stages. For example, make a "date night" once a week.
6. Be empathetic to your partner. Set aside some time to your plan and see your partner to understand his thinking. Acknowledge and validate your partner's feelings does not mean you have to agree with them. If this does not mean you have to give up on your own needs. Often times, the feeling of understanding will mean more to your partner than to be right or win the battle.
7. Focus on what you like about your partner and what they are doing right, rather than about their mistakes.
8. Your lover back. People who love you back. You will not be involved with someone who will love you.
9. You do not feel you are walking on eggshells. If you have a strong feeling in your stomach, it is not love, but you try to get approval.
10. A healthy relationship will enhance self-esteem.
To obtain a harmonious relationship, each partner needs to expose themselves. Healthy relationships happen when both partners feel safe to express themselves actually against each other.
Say It with Flowers ...
Say it with flowers, that's the phrase we often hear to express something to someone. Bungalah which always represent our feelings toward a loved one.
From generation kegenerasi, the woman who always loved always accept gifts of flowers. Flowers as part of the flora is a symbol of life and beauty, so that when received, women not only feel vibrate and flattered, they feel beautiful and very special. Giving flowers to a loved one will increase the sense of affection for you, and make it still very significant in your life.
Generally, interest is given in a special ambiance and to apologize, but the best time to give flowers is when there is no reason whatsoever. If you buy flowers just because you want to know that you love and memikirnya continuously, he would feel more impressed, and honor more than ever. Core giving "surprise" (in an atmosphere that is not party) will add a new atmosphere in your relationship.
Here are some flowers with meaning:
Full of charm carnations
Friendship chrysanthemum
Love is faithful daisies
Bunga Cinta pent glass plate
The beauty of flowers bungur
Love and beauty of orchids
Roses "I can not live without you"
Rose (thorn less) Love on first sight
Love the perfect tulip
Virtue violets
There are several ways to submit interest in your partner. Remember, whatever you do, your goal is to impress. The best way is to show the world that he was the companion of your life.
Give yourself
Why do not you buy flowers and take it straight? You can help situated in the water. Or take him to work and show all her coworkers that you are not only a good but how beruntunganya you have it.
Special delivery
Delivering flowers through delivery while you are in place and you see he was surprised when I read a greeting card, he not only feel a million flavors, but he also wanted to make you the same thing.
Whatever the reason, she sent flowers today to show that you love and respect him more than anyone else.
1. Do not fall in love with someone who is very potential. Too many men and women who have a friend or stay in a relationship with the expectation that others will change.
Be honest and be yourself and ask: "Can I love this person with the actual way in which they are now without hope for change?" if not, find another.
2. Do not worry about lust. In the sense that in a hurry, people having sex would create a false intimacy, which will lead to disappointment.
Take time to create a genuine emotional connection and let the passionate sexual relationship grow.
3. Do not ignore the desperation to have a relationship. For example, if he makes a statement like "I do not perform properly commitment," Trust him.
Ask yourself, "Is this person emotionally and situsioanal willing?" (People tend to spend time to his hobby and then a new partner).
4. Do not assume your friends are "physically" knowing what you want and need.
Responsible to express your feelings and need each other. This will avoid conflict and emotional connections in between you.
5. Accept your partner is. When the couple entered the honeymoon phase, they often feel satisfied with each other.
Continue to do romantic things with one another in every relationship, not only in the early stages. For example, make a "date night" once a week.
6. Be empathetic to your partner. Set aside some time to your plan and see your partner to understand his thinking. Acknowledge and validate your partner's feelings does not mean you have to agree with them. If this does not mean you have to give up on your own needs. Often times, the feeling of understanding will mean more to your partner than to be right or win the battle.
7. Focus on what you like about your partner and what they are doing right, rather than about their mistakes.
8. Your lover back. People who love you back. You will not be involved with someone who will love you.
9. You do not feel you are walking on eggshells. If you have a strong feeling in your stomach, it is not love, but you try to get approval.
10. A healthy relationship will enhance self-esteem.
To obtain a harmonious relationship, each partner needs to expose themselves. Healthy relationships happen when both partners feel safe to express themselves actually against each other.
Say It with Flowers ...
Say it with flowers, that's the phrase we often hear to express something to someone. Bungalah which always represent our feelings toward a loved one.
From generation kegenerasi, the woman who always loved always accept gifts of flowers. Flowers as part of the flora is a symbol of life and beauty, so that when received, women not only feel vibrate and flattered, they feel beautiful and very special. Giving flowers to a loved one will increase the sense of affection for you, and make it still very significant in your life.
Generally, interest is given in a special ambiance and to apologize, but the best time to give flowers is when there is no reason whatsoever. If you buy flowers just because you want to know that you love and memikirnya continuously, he would feel more impressed, and honor more than ever. Core giving "surprise" (in an atmosphere that is not party) will add a new atmosphere in your relationship.
Here are some flowers with meaning:
Full of charm carnations
Friendship chrysanthemum
Love is faithful daisies
Bunga Cinta pent glass plate
The beauty of flowers bungur
Love and beauty of orchids
Roses "I can not live without you"
Rose (thorn less) Love on first sight
Love the perfect tulip
Virtue violets
There are several ways to submit interest in your partner. Remember, whatever you do, your goal is to impress. The best way is to show the world that he was the companion of your life.
Give yourself
Why do not you buy flowers and take it straight? You can help situated in the water. Or take him to work and show all her coworkers that you are not only a good but how beruntunganya you have it.
Special delivery
Delivering flowers through delivery while you are in place and you see he was surprised when I read a greeting card, he not only feel a million flavors, but he also wanted to make you the same thing.
Whatever the reason, she sent flowers today to show that you love and respect him more than anyone else.
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